Last night, my daughter officially came home to live. Yay! I’ll be blogging about that on Sunday at http://ninjjagal.blogspot.com/ .
We were surfing the TV for entertainment yesterday evening and we came upon: 500 Days Of Summer. I watched this movie once before. Basically, it is a boy meets girl, girl destroys boys heart, boy can’t figure out why type of movie. It is definitely a character driven plot, which I tend to find boring most of the time. I like this one.
The theme to the movie, which I (and probably everyone else that watched it ’til the end) is fate. I won’t give the end of the movie away, but it definitely triggered a one way philosophical conversation in my mind…
Fate vs. Coincidence
Some of us believe in fate.
FATE: something that unavoidably befalls a person; fortune; lot … or… to predetermine, as by the decree of fate; destine.
Was it fate that I was in a motorcycle accident in 2007 which led to a snowball of events that turned my life into a sea of amazement? I’m not sure… I like to think that I have some sort of hand in the things that happen in my life….
Some of us think everything is a coincidence.
COINCIDENCE: a striking occurrence of two or more events at one time apparently by mere chance.
Was the accident just some morbid coincidence that left me scarred and slightly broken.. not to mention screwed over by a big name corporation when it came to taking care of me…? If not for the mounting on the pole, I’d not have gone in search of a different job. My search took me away from Auto Parts Delivery Chick, making just over minimum wage to Administrative Assistant, making twice the prior.
I could cite a thousand different scenarios and ask coincidence or fate… which do you believe?