As 2012 comes to a close… I have looked through my Penzu journal, gone through old notebooks and basically stepped back and looked at the canvas of my life. It hasn’t exactly been a spectacular year… but then it has been a spectacular year. I fell down a cliff on a quad, I celebrated six years of sobriety in May, I started going to Al-Anon (which changed my life!) and I ended a six year, toxic relationship never dreaming that I’d enter into a new relationship with a man who I am pretty sure was made just for me.
I read somewhere that when we order up the life we want to exact specifications, we just might get it. Well, I seem to be on my way.
Procrastination – Insecurity – Self-loathing – Laziness – Self-doubt – feeling unworthy in most situations. Ahhh.. those old ugly beliefs and bad thoughts that I wish I could beat with a hammer. However, thoughts are not tangible so I have to beat them with positive thinking!
Get it done! I am beautiful! I can and will prevail! Successful author! I have to fake it ’til I make it – and my advice to all of you is to do the same. Faking it ’til we make it is like a mental affirmation of determination that only we know about. It kinda goes along with that whole “The Secret” thing. Trust me – it freaking works.
How about you? What is your out with the old, in with the new for the coming year?
While drunk driving and drug related traffic accidents are down in the last couple years, they are still too high. According to statistics on MADD, 9, 878 people were killed in drunk driving accidents in 2011.
I am not here to talk about statistics and percentages. We can read stats on websites and billboards all day long, but realistically, they are just numbers and numbers do not hit home nor the heart.
I am here to talk about common freaking sense.
When we put chemicals into our body, even cold medicine, it alters our state of consciousness and our senses become warped. We might think we are driving “perfectly fine” after just a couple of drinks, one hit of marijuana, or a couple of pills, but the truth is the effects of any drug effect us.
You may or may not have a drinking problem. Chances are if you or someone you know thinks it is okay to drive while intoxicated, there most likely is an issue with drinking that goes deeper than just being selfish and without regard for others.
Here are some tips for partying (without injuring yourself or others) during the holiday season:
Have a designated driver. This works.
KNOW your limit.
The switch off. Drink water between every drink and for God’s sake EAT SOMETHING. Still: DO NOT DRIVE. This method is good for helping you or someone not turning into a belligerent drunk.
Keep an eye on friends or people you are with. If someone is drinking too much, make sure you take their keys (with our without them knowing it). They might get angry with you, but an angry friend is better than a dead friend.
Make sure you don’t have to drive. Plan a ride ahead or have money for a cab.
If you or someone you know has a drinking problem, go over to aa.org and get some information on how to get help and how to find a meeting.